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Sunday 3 April 2011

sometimes words don't work.

Emotions can get to you. They can change so rapidly. And sometimes you can't even explain what your emotions are. This is when music and lyrics come in handy. Some music can relate to how we feel, and connect to our emotions in a way I cant describe. just some lyrics in my day today.

"Well you put me on the spot, i don't know what to say but I'm trying anyway.. Like my hearts gonna drop, my mind drifts away, and i cant control the pace."
Sometimes it can be hard to know what to say, or to even say the right thing. Sometimes we can have it all planned out in our head, of what to say and how its going to go, but really when it comes to that, its completely different. At the end of it all we might not have even said anything of what we planned, we could walk away regretting our actions, or regretting saying the wrong thing. Words can be hard to say in different situations, especially when we don't know what to say. People can disagree or not even listen at all. I guess I have to try and remind myself, that even though sometimes people cant understand what I'm saying, or understand the way i think and act, that we are all different, and we can change for short periods of time, it just depends of what's going on around us. But its life. You could pour your whole heart out to someone, and they might not say anything at all, or even try and deal with what you have just said, they just move on, with their own opinions and life. We all have to find that someone who listen to our words, even when our words come out wrong, hurtful or strange. Because they are the people who actually care, listen and encourage us through our walk of life. some more lyrics I've been listening today.

"They say you know, when you really find the one. But its hard to tell with the damage thats been done. Id like to say that its your fault but i know better, Im a fool to think you'd wait around forever. Maybe i Should of shown, that i still do care about you more then you could know, don't say its too late to try, to make it right."
Well though we all can say the wrong thing, do something wrong.. etc. Our friendships have its ups and its downs. I get we cant help our feelings at a certain time. we can be thrown down, and our emotions start to become reality, when we start to talk about them. We have to trust in ourselfs more, so that we can like what we say to others. Others might not accept your efforts, but as I've learnt in the recent past, it might not be what that someone else wants to hear. so sometimes we have to "build the bridge, and walk across the other side"

1 comment:

  1. I value every word you speak Kathy...
    from the capital letter at the beginning to the final full stop.
    with each breath for the commas and the paragraphs of new stories.
    i love it all! and i value everything you have to say, even the loudest storied that arent spoken... thought, written or through a gesture.
    :) it's all beautiful, because it reflects you :) :)

    love jade :)
    your favorite listener :)

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