Where am I going?

There is a question we all come across in life and that's "where are we going".
And it's pretty relevant to every part and stage of our life. Where are you going?
Well, it's a simple answer. We don't exactly know. Times change, our hearts change and values in life change. Often sometimes, sometimes rarely. But we all face change.
it's a normal aspect if life. There's change for the good, but there is also bad change. And in life we face both the bad and the good. And sooner or later we have to face it, deal with it, and keep moving forward. No matter how hard it is to forget the people we have met along the way, the journey that is about to end or the chapter in life that we are passing through.
There's going to be a new chapter when old ones end.
New chapters come with seasons of work, friendships, relationships, change and different seasons. But life goes on.
I know it can be hard though, to keep moving when your stuck in the past or in the reality you want to be living in, then what you should be living in.

Which reminds me of something. Have you ever poured your heart out to someone- been completely real- and completely open?
I have. And I've recently learnt that emotions and fear can get in the way. As humans we can often have fear about what certain emotions can lead to.
Which can also lead to relationships and situations being broken from the insecure emotions we feel.
I've felt this. This emptiness after a close friend decides to stop talking to you, the pain you feel when you can't understand why, the emotions start to drag on because you want to know and understand- but you can't begin to explain how you feel- let alone what to say or do- cause you might make the whole situation worse. So you have a choice- to move on or keep stuck. Which is hard when someone means that much to you that you don't want to move on.
You know the hardest part of moving on? Is letting go.
It is defiantly not an easy thing. You need grace peace and patients. I find I also often need to have a full understanding of situations. I often find myself stuck because I want to know why the situation ended. We are all at different spits in life right? We are all growing differently yet together at once. Which is hard because we are going to clash and not understand certain things, yet we want to.
It's hard when our emotions can be completely unsure.
This is why we smile, say things like "I'm fine" and move on.
I guess facing some situations can be difficult just because you have no idea how they are going to end.
So we still keep hope. Hoping that things will work out, everything will smooth over and life can go on happily.

We don't know where we are going in life. But we are all growing and moving forward.
Our stories and situations on journeys grow and shape us to who we are. So remember that even when life is tough- you will only come out stronger.